Social clubs and friendship groups in Southend-on-Sea

Making friends as an adult is awkward, and these groups exist because other people found it hard too. Some are long-standing members’ clubs with a bar and a quiz night; others are informal meet-ups where a dozen people get a coffee and see who turns up.

14 clubs and groups listed · last updated 7 August 2026

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Get Up Get Out Get Social Essex

A sociable Meetup group for the over-35s – relaxed get-togethers and outings to make new friends across Essex.

Southend Central 35–60, 60+ Various days
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South East Essex Social Group

A Meetup community organising regular socials and activities for adults around south-east Essex.

Southend Central 35–60, 60+ Various days
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Essex & Suffolk Friends

A big, inclusive friendship group with thousands of members and regular Southend-based meet-ups and socials.

Southend Central 35–60, 60+ Various days
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Mums Together

Sociable meet-ups for mums – think picnics in Priory Park with blankets and games. Bring the family and say hello.

Southend Central 35–60 Various days
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Gals Mingal

A friendly women’s group for making real local friendships – for you, and a social life for the whole family.

Southend Central 35–60, 60+ Various days
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Southend Techmeet

A friendly community of IT pros, businesses and tech enthusiasts – monthly meetup (3rd Thursday) at The Board Game Hut covering software, AI, Raspberry Pi, robotics and more, plus hackathons and coding workshops. Over 18s.

Southend Central 35–60 3rd Thursday monthly
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Southend 30/40s Women’s Social

A welcoming Meetup group for women in their 30s and 40s – coffees, meals and nights out to build local friendships.

Southend Central 35–60 Various days
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Ambleside Social Club

Family-friendly social club on Ambleside Drive with live bands, darts, pool, snooker, a garden and seasonal events for children at Easter, Halloween and Christmas.

Southchurch All ages Various days
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Naval and Military Club

A historic social club on Royal Terrace overlooking the estuary – three bars, live music, quiz nights, karaoke and a function room, steeped in character since 1920. Open to all, family friendly.

Southend Central All ages Various days
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Grange Celtic Supporters Club

A sociable sports supporters’ club for adults, with children welcome too – a warm spot if you enjoy sport.

Southend Central All ages Various days
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Ekco Social & Sports Club

A community sports and social club with jazz nights, live sport and a new outdoor play area for the little ones.

Southend Central All ages Various days
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Centre Café – Belle Vue

A friendly community café at Belle Vue Baptist Church, with picnics and get-togethers in local parks.

Southend Central All ages Various days
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Southend-on-Sea u3a

A lifelong-learning co-operative for older people no longer in full-time work – dozens of interest groups from walking and knit-and-natter to canasta, run by members for members.

Southend Central 60+ Various days
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Southend Vox

A fun, sociable community choir run entirely by volunteers, open to all genders 18 and over. Sings an eclectic mix of pop, show songs, spirituals and contemporary pieces.

Eastwood 35–60, 60+ Various days
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